To say we were a little surprised by Andrew's early arrival is quite the understatement! For no logical reason, I was convinced that January 28th would be his birthday. Jon was predicting February 1st. Oops! I guess you can only say how unprepared you are so many times before God laughs and brings your baby into the world 2 1/2 weeks early!
Tuesday (1/17) was a typical day for us. My friend Kelly and her son Jack were in town visiting, so Madeline and I met them in Clear Lake for a play date. Kelly said she was secretly hoping I'd have him while she was in town (ha). Tuesday night I went to my friend Emily's house.
(This is where it gets good. Proceed at your own risk!)
9 pm: I came home, took a shower, and Jon and I talked about how we should probably pack for the hospital and talk about what to name him. Instead we opted for watching Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.
9:15 pm: I'm sitting on the couch and my water breaks. Exact words out of my mouth: "S*&t! I can't believe this is happening. We are so not ready for this!"
9:16 pm: I immediately call my mom so she can come over. I spend the next 15 minutes frantically running around while Jon tries to calm me down and Googles: "What to bring to the hospital when you're having a baby." (as if we haven't done this before)
9:30 pm: I finally get my act together, pack and call the doctor.
10:30 pm: My mom arrives at our house. Jon and I are sitting at the table while I try and eat as much as possible, knowing that my next bit of real food could be 24 hours away. Throughout all of this, I'm still having no real contractions and do not feel like I could be having a baby soon. We decide to wait until after midnight to go to the hospital just to make sure we don't have issues staying an extra night with insurance. To kill time, my mom paints my toes since I obviously wasn't going to make it to my scheduled pedicure 2 days later. (and pretty toes are an essential part of childbirth, right??)
11:45 pm: We decide it would probably be a good idea to head to the hospital. (Still feeling nothing)
12:15 am (Jan 18th): Check into the hospital, confirm my water did break, and that I'm only 1 1/2 cm dilated. The on call doctor gives me 2 hours to progress on my own.
2 am: No progress, start pitocin. In hopes of speeding up the process, I decide to tough it out without an epidural for as long as possible. Jon tries to sleep, and I get none because the child in my tummy chooses to move every time the nurse gets the baby heart monitor situated. This game continues until he's born. The nurse tells me the baby is upset because we hadn't decided what to name him. (haha)
4 am: 3 cm dilated and trying to tough out contractions, which still aren't regular even with pitocin.
4:45 am: I give in to the epidural and immediately become a more pleasant person. I tell the anesthesiologist that he must be the most popular dude in the hospital and he tells me it's like selling water in a desert.
6:00 am: 4 cm dilated. I pout and have a pity party, convinced that he will not be born until the afternoon. I'm bored, tired and the ice chips were not cutting it (although Women's does have the good Sonic-type ice). My mom calls for an update. I tell her not to come to the hospital yet, and Jon tells her otherwise.
6:50 am: I start to feel very different and find out I'm 8 cm. My mom and sister arrive shortly after that, and I'm grateful that Jon went behind my back and told them to come to the hospital.
6:51 am: My mom begins the very necessary task of applying my makeup. (nah, we're not vain)
Between 7 and 8 am: I feel like the kid is going to be born on his own. I find out Dr. Ball is performing a surgery so I have to wait for at least 30 minutes for her to finish. That was interesting. The nurse tells me not to laugh, cough or move unless I want the baby to be born before Dr. Ball shows up. I start laughing, and she says, "Seriously, no laughing." Dr. Ball casually walks in, chats it up for a bit, checks me and says, "Wow, they weren't kidding. Don't move! Don't cough! I have to get ready." Everyone starts laughing, including me. Everyone looks at me and says, "NO LAUGHING!" Apparently they were not kidding. Three pushes and at 8:06 am he was out! He was perfect, and Jon and I kept saying, "He's so tiny!"
Andrew Lawson: 6 lbs, 6 oz. 19 1/2 inches long. Born at 8:06 am
Madeline Grace: 6 lbs, 6 oz. 19 inches long. Born at 8:46 am
I think 6 is my new lucky number!
Overall, this was a pretty easy labor and delivery. I thought Madeline's was easy, but I must say I'd pick my water breaking any day over hours of contractions. Here's some of my favorite pics from Andrew's first two days:
To answer a few questions:
How did we decide on his name?
We had it narrowed down to two choices for about a month. Neither one of us could decide which one to go with, so I finally told Jon it could be his choice. He decided to wait and see what he looked like. Right after he was born, we looked at him and Jon decided he looked like an Andrew. Luckily I agreed. :) We are just calling him Andrew for now. I'm sure a nickname will come later, but if anyone calls my precious child Andy I'm going to give you a dirty look. Lawson is Jon's middle name, and that of the oldest born Kleckley male for now the 6th generation.
How did Madeline like meeting baby brother?
She walked into the hospital room, took one look at him, and said "No baby Andrew" for a good 10 minutes. I think our families had been shoving it in her face all day and she was tired of it. I brought a present to give to her from baby Andrew, and as soon as we handed it to her, she was cool with him. From then on it was, "He's soooo cute."